10 Ways to Discipline Your Submissive Male

By Dominique Bines

Training is an important element in teaching your submissive male his place in your femdom relationship. When he fails to do what you ask him, punishment must be used to correct unwanted behavior. To help you think of some ways to teach him a lesson, I’ve listed 10 ways to discipline your submissive male.

Keep in mind, some of these are a bit more extreme than others. It just depends on how badly he fucked up.

  1. Spank or whip him. With so many options available (wooden spoon, hairbrush, belt, ruler, ping pong paddle, riding crop, switch, etc.), you should have plenty of choices to deliver the most fitting punishment. Check out our recommended toys.
  2. Restrain him in an uncomfortable position, such as:
    1. His ankles tied together with a sting attaching his balls to them.
    2. Hog tied (wrists and ankles tied together).
    3. Hanging from the ceiling by his wrists.
    4. In a chair with his knees pulled up to his shoulders – good for spanking and everything is exposed and vulnerable.
  3. Tie up his balls and cock with a long leather thong, clothesline, or boot lace. Use a long piece and wrap the base and balls repeatedly. Do each ball separately. Tie tight loops around his shaft from base to tip then tie the end off back between his legs and up to a belt or to his handcuffs.
  4. Make him wear a chastity cage. For added fun, make him eat your pussy and pleasure you while he’s locked up. Cock Cages can be frustratingly fun… for both of you.
  5. Attach clothes pins or nipple clips to his nipples, balls, cock or wherever.
  6. Put a butt plug in his ass… or fuck him with a strap-on.
  7. Increase his domestic chores. Make them more difficult: tie his hands; make him use a toothbrush to clean the toilet, tie his ankles with a short chain and make him wear extra high heels.
  8. Deny him orgasms for a long period of time.
  9. Drip candle wax on him.
  10. Humiliate him in public… take him shopping for panties/lingerie, make him buy extra-small condoms from a store you frequent, take him to a nude beach locked in chastity. The possibilities are endless.


Regardless of what you choose, make sure the punishment fits the action. Your punishments should show that you want to help your submissive grow and be accountable for his actions. Don’t be afraid to be a little more severe than you would be. Trust me: he’ll love it. Just be safe.

What are some of your favorite ways to discipline your submissive male? Let me know in the comments below.

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