What is a Ruined Orgasm?
By Tony Smalls
If you’re into male chastity, you have probably heard the term “Ruined Orgasm” before. While it might seem odd or something you don’t understand, I hope to explain what it is and why it can be a fun thing to do for both partners.
Simply put, a ruined orgasm is when all stimulation is stopped just as ejaculation begins. This means that no stroking or touching of the penis occurs while the male in cumming. Additionally, this could include ceasing stimulation to the prostate, testicles, nipples, or any other erogenous zones during the orgasm.
While edging involves stopping stimulation just before ejaculation begins, a ruined orgasm pushes just beyond that, not stopping until he actually begins to cum. This results in semen dribbling down the penis. Leaking out rather than spurting.
What Does a Ruined Orgasm Do for Him?
When a man’s orgasm is ruined, their semen is released from the prostate glad like normal, however, he does not experience the muscle contractions which cause his cum to spurt out like it does during a full orgasm.
As a result, his brain does not release any of the hormones that make orgasms feel so amazing: prolactin and oxytocin. This causes dopamine levels to remain elevated. So, instead of feeling relaxed and happy after coming, he remains aroused and frustrated.
For him, a ruined orgasm can be an extremely frustrating experience, especially if he’s been caged for a long time and desperate for a release.
Some men enjoy ruined orgasms since they feel like it intensifies the teasing and denial elements of enforced chastity relationships. Others dislike them and would do anything to earn a full orgasm over a ruined one. It all depends on the people involved in the relationship.
Keyholders and Ruined Orgasms
The first couple of times a keyholder attempts to ruin his orgasm, it can be a little difficult. For many, it takes a few tries to find the perfect time to stop the stimulation. It’s just finding that right moment.
I recommend taking some time to learn how your caged man feels about being ruined. From there, you can find the best way to incorporate them into your chastity dynamic. Are they a reward? A punishment? Both?
Experiment and find out what works best for you and your caged man.
What are your thoughts on Ruined Orgasms? Love them or hate them, I’d love to know in the comments down below.